Thursday, April 24, 2008

Is bulimia a psychological eating disorder?

Most people are fairly familiar with what bulimia is. It is an eating disorder that many young girls, sometimes boys, develop, especially during their teenage years. It is their attempt at trying to keep their body weight in check, or even to lose weight. They will eat the food they are served, but then they will induce vomiting after that meal when they are able to get away from the table. This activity is usually done in secret and the individual will try their best to hide what they are doing from even their closest family members and friends. Many who have this disorder don’t even realize they have a problem and will deny that they could have a problem when confronted by a loved one.

An individual with bulimia will eat a good sized portion of food and then induce vomiting afterwards to get rid of the food they had just eaten. There are a few reasons why an individual would do this. Sometimes it is genes that are inherited by the person. People who inherit the genes are highly susceptible to developing the condition later on. Pressure from students at school could lead to teenage girls, or boys in some cases, to becoming bulimic. An individual can also be pushed into becoming bulimic by pressure from their family to lose weight and to work on their appearance. A low level of confidence in their appearance and body weight, as well as a dislike for their selves can also play a large roll in the individual developing the condition.

This psychological disorder can eventually lead to the death of the individual if they problem is not dealt with. It can be difficult to help a person with bulimia as their first reaction is often denial, especially with individuals who have had the condition for a longer period of time. It can be hard to notice the signs of bulimic activity to most people who are not familiar with it, but there are signs. Common signs to look for include the abuse of diet pills, laxatives, diuretics and induced vomiting. As mentioned before, the signs can easily be missed because the person with the condition will do their best to hide what they are doing, but there is help available for those who have a problem. The trick is first noticing that the person has a problem and then getting that person to realize they might be bulimic and need help.

Bulimia can be a touchy issue for those with the condition. They will want to deny they have the problem and even when they start to accept they are bulimic getting the help can be difficult. There is online therapy available for those who want to ensure that no one else will find out that they are in therapy, especially those who are greatly affected by peer pressure. The patient can easily contact their online therapist from the comfort of their own home and this option eliminates the excuse that help is just too far away. Online therapy is a virtual therapist in the home where the patient can openly communicate with the therapist about their issues in a private and comfortable place.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Are Sleeping Pills the Only Way?

If there is one thing that many people are guilty of, it is looking for the quick fix instead of trying healthier alternatives first. There are some people who try many alternatives before they turn to conventional medicinal therapy, but more will unfortunately opt for the pills rather than give alternatives a fair chance. It appears to be human nature to be a little impatient to start with, but with today’s pressures in trying to make a living and get everything done in one day, tolerance takes a dive and impatience soars. It could be for this reason that many will go for the typically temporary medicinal therapy and try to make it a permanent solution to their problem. This is especially true for people who are suffering from insomnia or difficulty in trying to sleep. Rather than try and change their diet or their daily habits that possibly contribute to their problem, they go for the pills because it is easier. Unfortunately, this can have a negative effect on the individual who becomes reliant on a solution that is actually meant to be a temporary therapy.

People don’t often stop to think about what can happen if they rely on something too long. Many can become so dependant on sleeping pills that without them they can’t get to sleep at all. In fact, some people can actually develop and addiction to sleeping pills. What most people will be unaware of is that sleeping pills don’t actually allow the body to get the rest it needs. The pills put the person under, but this is a forced sleep and is not one that the body reacts to overly well over a long period of time. After a while, the person can become affected emotionally, even to the point of becoming irritable and depressed. When it really gets down to it, downing pills doesn’t solve the initial problems. They are simply a quick fix that the person takes advantage of instead of trying to find out why they can’t sleep and finding sleep in a natural way.

Really, no medications should be taken without consulting a doctor. People who are having trouble sleeping can contact an online therapist or counselor and discuss their difficulty getting to sleep. While they go through the therapy, they might prescribed some temporary medications that can help them relax and sleep while they go through therapy to find out why they might be having trouble sleeping. The online therapist can easily communicate with the patient through messaging back and forth and can help the patient uncover any issues the patient might have. In most cases, when these issues are exposed and dealt with, the patient can eventually have an easier time falling asleep without the aid of sleeping pills. Difficulty in finding sleep can be solved in many ways without having to rely on the help of sleeping pills. It is better for both the mind and body when a person can relax and go to sleep naturally. There is no artificial supplement to sleep that will give the person the quality of rest they get from the natural thing.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Can music improve your mood?

When people think of depression and what can help treat it, the first thing that will often come to mind will be medication or antidepressants. Though medication can be an effective treatment, they are not a cure for depression and they are not the only treatment option for people suffering depression. As depression is studied to gain more understanding about why people become depressed, it has been found that certain types of music may also be an effective treatment method for improving a depressed individual’s mood. Tests are still being conducted to find out why it works for some people.

Not all music will affect a person in a positive way and not all the same music will affect different people in the same way. It depends on the individual and what they find to be calming. It also has much to do with what lyrics are in the music, because even subconsciously an individual can pick up on what is being said, and also what kind sound the music has, such as a harsh or soft sound. The effectiveness of this type of therapy can also vary depending on what kind of depression the individual has and the cause of the depression. For music therapy to work, it is best to listen to solitudes or music that doesn’t really have lyrics in it or any harsh tones or sounds. Tests have shown that calming music of this sort can calm a person’s heart rate as well as their mind when they were in a relatively agitated state. It really is amazing how much music can affect an individual’s mood. It can make a person happy, sad or even angry. This is why it is important that if a person is attempting to improve their mood by music, they are sure the music they choose will have a positive effect on them.

Music therapy may not be for everyone, and many may not believe in it, but many believe that it has and does work. To find out more about music therapy, one can always look it up on the internet to find answers. There are also online therapists and counselors that a person can contact in order to find out more about this. Someone who believes they might be suffering from depression should be consulting a therapist or a counselor, so they can ask their therapist about this kind of therapy during their next session. An online therapist can also help the patient to work through their depression using other methods. While music therapy may prove useful to some, others may not find as much of a positive result from it. Either way, a therapist can help the patient to figure out what is causing their depression as well as to treat it properly. Trying to self-medicate or treat depression on one’s own is never recommended. If seeing a therapist in person is too uncomfortable, then online therapy is available. A therapist can give the patient the treatment they need so that they can be successful in getting out of their depression.

Friday, April 11, 2008

How to communicate within your family?

There are many situations or difficulties that can hurt a family unit. It could be that a parent or both parents are suffering from substance abuse problems, a member of the immediate family has passed away, or even poor communication. Families that do not spend much time together and where clear communication is lacking can have difficulty in remaining a strong family unit. Many do not realize it, but one of the first things needed to having a strong and happy family unit is communication. Without proper communication, there can be a lack of trust, an increased chance of misunderstanding and a good chance that the family could eventually fall apart; meaning that each member of the family will go their own separate way.

While good communication alone is not going to ensure that a family has strong bonds, communication does play a large roll in keeping the family a stronger unit that will have more of a chance at staying together. Communication opens the door to there being support in the family, understanding, trust, respect and even happiness. When everyone in the family feels they always have someone to talk to who will listen to them when life gets rough, they can feel more secure in the family they are in. Being able to have others they can trust and rely on can make for a happier family environment where both the children and parents can feel healthy, safe and secure. It is amazing how much the lack of communication can negatively affect the family as a whole. This is probably because without proper communication there can be many misunderstandings and even fights within the family. A lack of communication could also cause large rifts to begin forming between family members and each individual can lose track of what is going on in the rest of the family. The family members can start drifting apart and the family unit can fall apart.

Many families have communication problems and don’t even realize it. This is why it is a good idea that a family that wishes to stay together and create a strong family unit, whether they think they have good communication or not, should visit a family therapist. Online therapy is also available. A family that has questions about good communication can easily go online, do a quick search for an online family therapist and then send the therapist any questions they might have. If family counseling is necessary, the family therapist can work with the family online in order to develop good communication skills within the family unit. It is always best for a family to ensure they have good communication skills from the start, because as time goes on it can become more difficult to develop those communications skills after rifts have started to appear. An online therapist can help the family, whether they have children or not, develop these skills so that they can have a stronger family unit from the start. A good strong family helps to create a safe and secure atmosphere for all the members.

If you or anyone that you know have any further questions regarding this post, please do not hesitate to contact jennifer@completecounselingsolutions.com or visit http://www.completecounselingsolutions.com.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

How to Deal with Aging Male Syndrome?

Aging is perhaps one of the most difficult things a man or woman will have to face in their life. Aging is inevitable and is something that all humans will have to eventually face. Hair will start to turn grey and fall out, wrinkles will start to appear and many will even start to gain some weight that they just can’t seem to get rid of. Men especially don’t like the idea of growing older and often fear that they will become unattractive to women; however, no amount of fear or attempts to ignore the fact that they will all age will prevent them from the natural course of life.

Between the ages of 35 and 65, men will go through aging male syndrome, which is when the body will start to produce less testosterone. This hormone is what maintains sperm production as well as the sex drive and hair on the body. When less of this hormone is produced, hair starts to turn grey and even fall out, less sperm is produced and the individual can have less of a sex drive than before. Other symptoms of aging male syndrome include a loss in muscle mass, weight gain, trouble sleeping, loss of energy, erection problems, memory loss, osteoporosis and/or depression. There are many men out there who may not even realize that they are suffering from the aging male syndrome and believe that they are just feeling down or stress is getting in the way of regular sleeping patterns. In fact, in many cases individuals will go in for help for one of the symptoms and find out that a loss of testosterone is probably responsible.

Aging male syndrome is still being studied, but there are treatments available for men who have had a large drop in testosterone production. In many cases, the patient is put on a medication that can boost the levels of testosterone in the body. Any questions regarding aging male syndrome can be answered by a doctor. There are many individuals who will go online to contact an online therapist regarding their difficulty in sleeping, loss of energy and/or depression and the therapist has determined that their problem could be aging male syndrome. Tests are usually done and if it is determined that the patient is being affected by low testosterone production, the patient might be put on hormone therapy that can help deal with the symptoms.

Online therapy is an easy way for anyone to contact a professional regarding their health. In fact, many men have gone online and have found that many of the symptoms they are experiencing are a result of aging male syndrome. The online therapist or counselor they have been communicating with can help them get the necessary testing and treatment they need in order to minimize or eliminate the symptoms they are experiencing. Not only is online therapy convenient from the comfort of the home, the patient can contact a therapist in a way that can help ensure their therapy and treatment is confidential if confidentiality is a major concern for the patient. It is unfortunate that many people have avoided seeking the therapy and treatment they need due to feeling nervous or even embarrassed by the idea of getting help. None of these feelings should stand in the way of a person improving their life; this is why online therapy is available.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

The Impact of Depression on Men Over Time.

Most people easily recognize the difficulties that young women can suffer during their teen years, especially for those who are concerned about their self image and who have very little confidence in themselves. People tend to forget about the other half of the population, probably because men are brought up to not be as emotional as women. The lack of emotion and the covering up with humour, or other behaviour, can often lead to mistaken assumptions that all young boys are fine during these younger years. Unfortunately, many have difficulties with peer pressure, low self-esteem, lack of confidence and concern about their physical image almost as much as the women.

It is found that many men who have problems with depression and substance abuse later in life, especially alcoholism, have developed the problem from an early age. It is believed that many of these addictions can be developed during later high school years or post-secondary years because of the easy access to the party atmosphere, the peer pressure and the easy access to alcohol and drugs. During this early time in their life, they may not have consciously understood that there were issues that needed to be resolved and/or that they were suffering from a depression that they were trying to hide from. Other young men may have realized that they were not happy and that there were issues that needed resolving, but did not know how to get the help that they needed and when to alcohol and drugs to self-medicate and hide from the troubling issues. Many of these men refused to accept that they had a problem and even more refused therapy because they were more concerned with their image and being caught seeing a therapist could have a detrimental affect on their image, as they see it. This is especially unfortunate because their self-medicating can often turn into an addiction that can be destructive to their life in the future.

Today, there are more options available for young men who are concerned about confidentiality when getting the help they need. Online therapy or online counseling is becoming more popular all the time because of the increased confidentiality it offers as well as the convenience it offers. The therapist communicates with their patient over the internet by messaging their patients. This way, the patient can communicate with their online therapist from their home. Any issues that might be causing the patient’s discomfort and depression can be explored, discussed and dealt with. The therapist can also help the patient to work away from their addiction, but the patient has to want to be helped. If a patient wants help and wants to improve their life and their view of their selves, an online therapist can help them in much the same way that a therapist can in person. The patient just has to be clear and open about what it is that is bothering them and above all must be honest. This way, the therapist can work with the patient and treat them accordingly so that the patient can hopefully live a happier life. Many people who have been treated through online therapy have been successfully treated.